I first read Eugene Peterson’s book Working the Angles: the Shape of Pastoral Integrity in the mid-90’s. I read all of his books on pastoral ministry, finding them helpful. A decade in to pastoral ministry, and preparing for my next call, I decided to read it again.
I found that while the book hadn’t changed, I [...]
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Considering Working the Angles
Posted in Books, Counseling, Ministry, Prayer, Puritans, tagged Books, neo-orthodoxy, pastoral ministry, Prayer, Puritans, Scripture, spiritual direction on April 20, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Considering Satan
Posted in Apologetics, Atonement, Biblical Theology, Counseling, Culture, Current Events, Mark Driscoll, tagged Freud, gospel, Jesus, Jung, Mark Driscoll, Nightline, Satan, substitutionary atonement, wars on March 28, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
On Nightline, there was a Face Off regarding the reality of Satan. Mark Driscoll was one of the participants. Mark did a great job integrating the reality of the Evil One with a presentation of the gospel. He offered hope in the midst of our personal and societal struggles.
And then there was Deepok Chopra gave [...]
Considering When Homosexuality Hits Home
Posted in Books, Counseling, Family, Sexuality, tagged anger, Counseling, depression, grief, homosexuality, hope, Joe Dallas, SSA on March 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
My friend has been busy reading. I am filled with envy and must repent. She read another book by Joe Dallas. This one was When Homosexuality Hits Home: What to Do when a Loved One Says They’re Gay. Here’s what she says:
When Homosexuality Hits Home: What to Do When a Loved One Says they’re Gay [...]
Considering Desires in Conflict
Posted in Counseling, Family, Parenting, Sexuality, tagged Counseling, homosexuality, Joe Dallas, spiritual disciplines on February 25, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Here is another guest post on the subject of homosexuality. This time my friend reviews Desires in Conflict, Hope for Men Who struggle with Sexual Identity by Joe Dallas.
The updated version of this book was written in 1991 but the message stands true still. As the subtitle states, the book gives hope for men who [...]
Considering A Parent’s Guide to Preventing Homosexuality
Posted in Counseling, Family, Parenting on February 16, 2009 | 17 Comments »
Today I have a guest blogger who asked to anonymously post some book reviews. Their family is going through some difficulties, and this helps them process what they are reading. Perhaps it will help you.
These posts will deal with an issue that is quite controversial today. There has been a shift in thinking on some [...]
Considering A Proverbs Driven Life, Part 1
Posted in Bible, Books, Christian Living, Counseling, Evangelism, Marriage, Ministry, tagged gospel, relationships, wealth, wisdom, words, Work on January 26, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I consider Proverbs to be “preventative grace”. It was initially written to prepare young men for adulthood by providing practical wisdom. It was to help them avoid the pitfalls of life’s choices rather than get out of them. So, when I saw Anthony Selvaggio’s A Proverbs Driven Life, I was interested. When I was offered [...]
Considering Troubled Teens
Posted in Books, Counseling, Family, Ministry, tagged Counseling, Family, Ministry, teens on January 22, 2009 | 1 Comment »
There is a new book out, Get Outta My Face: How to Reach Angry, Unmovtivated Teens with Biblical Counsel by Rick Horne, that offers assistance to families, ministers and counselors. WTS Books has this book for 65% off , an introductory price of $4.88, until January 24, 2009 at noon. Then it will be the customary [...]
Considering Gospel Boldness
Posted in Books, Christian Living, Counseling, Evangelism, Ministry, tagged boldness, Counseling, fear of God, fear of man, gospel, Ministry, Prayer on January 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
In Galatians 1-2 one of the dominant themes is the fear of man. Paul, in lovingly yet boldly confronting the Galatians, and exposing the false teachers was living in the fear of God rather than the fear of man. He was not accomodating the gospel to please anyone, recognizing the divine origin of that gospel.
On [...]
Considering Counseling
Posted in Counseling, tagged Counseling, emotions, practice, small groups, theory, thoughts on January 17, 2009 | 4 Comments »
I was pondering counseling yesterday. It was a nice, quiet morning at the house. I was considering why I was foolish enough to not pursue a license after getting my Master of Arts in Counseling. I was single at the time, and it would have been easy to spend my day off seeing clients. Such [...]
Considering Steve Brown and Dan Allender
Posted in Books, Christian Living, Church, Counseling, Ministry, tagged authenticity, Dan Allender, gospel, leadership, Steve Brown on November 4, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Steve Brown interviews Dan Allender on leadership and his book Leading with a Limp. Here are some snippets to pique your interest.
“There is a lack of truth in all of us.”
He discusses how the double life created by posturing acts like an acid that destroys faith. That lack of truth leads us to deny the [...]
Considering Addictions
Posted in Books, Christian Living, Counseling, Ministry, Theology, tagged addictions, Christ, Counseling, disease model, Edward Welch, gospel, hope, identity, idolatry, shame, Thomas Chalmers on September 29, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
With my current gig as pulpit supply meaning I have to prepare a new sermon, currently on Nehemiah, each week my reading has dropped off significantly. Addictions: A Banquet in the Grace- Finding Hope in the Power of the Gospel by Edward Welch has been in process for well over a year. I started reading [...]
Following Up
Posted in Books, Christian Living, Counseling, Martin Luther, Ministry, Sinclair Ferguson, Theology, Tim Keller, Worship, tagged addictions, affections, asceticism, Christian Hedonism, idolatry, Jesus, John Piper, Martin Luther, piety, position, Samuel Storms, sanctification, Sinclair Ferguson, Thomas Chalmers, Tim Keller, worldliness, Worship on September 19, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
In listening to some Tim Keller sermons there were a few leads I wanted to follow up. If you are like me, you might think “I really need to find that”, but aren’t really sure where to find it.
Tim is fond of mentioning Martin Luther’s Large Catechism in connection with idolatry. I’ve been wanting to [...]
Considering Job’s Mysterious Friend & Suffering
Posted in Apologetics, Biblical Theology, Christian Living, Counseling, Theology, tagged concurrence, divine sovereignty, faith, grace, Job, redemption, Satan, sin, suffering on August 21, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
The cycle of speeches between Job and his 3 friends has finished with Job’s final speech. Their rather limited theological views couldn’t answer Job’s questions. They ended up condemning Job.
There is one telling statement about Job in 32:1- “because he was righteous in his own eyes.”
Job shared their faulty theology. Since he was certain he had [...]
Still Considering the Lakeland Outpouring
Posted in Christian Living, Counseling, Current Events, Revival, Theology, tagged Carl Trueman, conversion, faith, false gospel, Fresh Fire, glorification, Justification, Lakeland outpouring, miracles, R.T. Kendall, regeneration, sanctification, Todd Bentley on August 19, 2008 | 3 Comments »
This is my last post on Todd Bentley. I don’t want to spend too much time thinking about him. But there are things I think need to be said, for the cause of Christ.
I came across this yesterday but didn’t address it. Contrary to what Todd Bentley told Stephen Strader, there was another party involved. [...]
Considering Job’s Desire for Death
Posted in Bible, Christian Living, Counseling, tagged doubt, fear, Job, patience, righteousness on August 13, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Things take an ugly turn in Job 9-14. Job’s friends continue to claim he suffers for his sin. Job continues to declare his innocence. This does not mean he thinks he is perfect- just that there is no sin he has hidden from God, no sin which he has refused to confess. He upholds the [...]
Considering Faithful God
Posted in Bible, Biblical Theology, Books, Christian Living, Counseling, Sinclair Ferguson, Theology, tagged guidance, Holy Spirit, John Newton, providence, Redeemer, Scripture, sin, Sinclair Ferguson, suffering, trust, Willam Cowper on August 12, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I just finished Faithful God: An Exposition of the Book of Ruth by Sinclair Ferguson. I wish I had had this book when I preached through Ruth in the Spring of 2007 (chap. 1, chap. 2, chap. 3, chap. 4). Originally given as a series of addresses presented to the English Conference of the Evangelical [...]
Considering Job and God’s Discomforting Gaze
Posted in Bible, Biblical Theology, Christian Living, Counseling, Theology, tagged bad council, forgiveness, God's holy gaze, image of God, Job, Job's friends, sin, suffering on August 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Job responds to Eliphaz’ claim that he is obviously guilty of some great sin, bringing this disaster upon himself. Yes, Job admits that God has striken him. In fact, he wants God to go all the way and put him out of his misery. Job is losing perspective, but he sees he is in great [...]
Considering Job Part 1
Posted in Bible, Biblical Theology, Christian Living, Counseling, tagged discipline, faith, God, grace, hardship, Job, Satan, sin on August 6, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
While we are away, I thought I’d work my way through Job, again. It can be a good place to go when you are suffering precisely because it doesn’t offer prepackaged answers. It is not all neat and tidy. He’s in pain and becomes confused at points. His friends are not quite helpful. They speak [...]
Considering Fathers
Posted in Books, Counseling, Family, Movies, Parenting, tagged abusive, affirming, Braveheart, Edward Longshanks, fathers, manhood, nurturing, Robert the Bruce, Scotland, sons, William Wallace on July 24, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Braveheart is one of my favorite movies. Mel Gibson was on a great run there for awhile. It is a movie about the value and price for freedom, and it is a stirring film (historical inaccuracies aside).
But what is often missed is the important roles fathers (and father figures) play in the lives of the [...]
Considering Calvinism Gone Wrong
Posted in Baptism, Bible, Biblical Theology, Christian Living, Church, Counseling, Ministry, Theology, tagged baptists, Calvinism, charismatics, dispensationalism, gospel, grace, idoltary, inner Pharisee, J.I. Packer, Justin Taylor, Pentacostals, Ray Ortland, Roger Nicole on July 17, 2008 | 12 Comments »
Justin Taylor (Between Two Worlds) linked to a post by Ray Ortland that is a good reminder for all of us who are Reformed in our theology (I spoke with a potential real estate agent about that this morning). Here is some of what he says:
The Judaizers in Galatia did not see their distinctive – [...]